The most fundamental difference in the thinking of the poor and the rich is “knowing your strength.”
When facing difficulties, the poor often have inertia to blame for factors that cannot be controlled, such as: I can’t do it, I can’t win, my capacity is limited, I can’t buy, I I can’t keep up with the times, money is hard to find, I’m because I make money to go to work …
The rich think backwards through the right methods to achieve the results they want, such as: how can I do it, I have to win, I will continue to learn, I can afford to buy, i’m still very young, make money very easy, i have to let money work for me …
Therefore, it is easy to see that when problems arise, when the results are still not present, the poor have a habit of giving answers as impossible, while the rich focus on the problem itself and Think about how to solve it.
Why does this happen?
In fact, our world is made up of systems and rules. From birth to before age 7, we have built our own system of awareness and manipulation through observation and imitation. So, if we compare life with a computer, the first 7 years of life are the stages of downloading programs.
The reality is always that the poor are increasingly poor, and the rich are getting richer. That’s because the poor and the rich download different programs, so the world they see is not the same.
Even when you see an object together, each person’s method of storing and handling problems is not the same, so the output perspective is also different.
The poor believe that making money is difficult, life is born to suffer!
Rich people think that making money is very simple, but what should I do to do it?
People with money do not necessarily live this whole life, but temporarily without money does not mean that this whole life will be poor. Many poor but rich-minded people, and they are gradually becoming rich; But there are also many rich people who carry the mind of a poor person, so the property gradually disappears.
I think that the thinking of the rich and the thinking of the poor are different at the following points:
1. Make money and save
The rich like to make money, the poor like to save money.
The rich like to spend money to improve the quality of life and mental appearance, thereby earning more money. The poor like to reduce the quality of life to save more money.
Of course, increasing income and saving expenses are all important. But you need to be aware that spending savings are subject to the limits of total income, while the space of the increase in income is much wider.
2. Free and paid
Rich people with paid fees, poor people like what is free.
Payments can help you get the most out of resources, such as limited products, professional suggestions, the most talented people …
The results of free are “limited” resources or things that too many people use.
3. Adventure and safety
The rich dare to risk, the poor pursue safety.
Adventure means huge opportunities for benefits, synonymous with few competitors. And safety is synonymous with small benefits, many competitors, and a weaker negotiating position.
4. Sharing and monopolizing
The rich are happy with sharing, the poor like to monopolize.
This can be considered a promotion version of “free and paid”. Sharing is synonymous with equal benefits, which also means binding benefits from it and improving the success rate of doing something. Single occupation is often equivalent to unilateral code, alone a battle line.
5. Stable growth and rising after a night
The rich wait for stable growth, the poor hope to wake up after a night.
Nothing is wrong with the desire to become rich, but if that wealth does not come from the accumulation and effort for a long time, it will disappear sooner or later.
6. Choice and opportunism
Rich people like to make choices in big things, poor people like opportunism in small things.
This can be considered an upgrade of “risk and safety.” The rich gather resources and wisdom to take advantage, after choosing, there will be less changes, taking time to change space; poor people avoid choice, prefer to wait for opportunities from small things, and lack of patience, it is difficult to wait until results appear.
So how to capture and control your own life?
First of all, what I want to emphasize is that repeating the original process will only yield the same results, which is why it is impossible to follow the rules. I and them do the same thing, study the same school, have the same degree, so where do we rely on them better?
Based on what you need to understand yourself!
Once again redefining the ideal life of ourselves: it must be acknowledged that we are always able to choose, just that we choose mediocrity, think clearly, state of affairs living what we don’t want is, what is the most ideal way of living. Obviously, these 2 points can be used to realize the realization.
When we have a clear understanding of the ideal state of life, to identify a clear goal, follow the steps below:
1. Awaken yourself
Once again look back at your own life and values, find the problem you are facing.
2. Awareness upgrade
Finding an appropriate “program” can solve the problem you are facing, thinking of ways to download this program, and installing it into your operating system.
I used to think that there are many things I can’t control, until later, I discovered that these problems have a solution. In particular, in the current age of information technology development, there is basically no shortage of answers for you, the problem is whether you trust and seriously seek them.
3. Work hard
Once we find a way to solve the problem, we have to learn to follow the process and practice it again and again until it is “internalized”, so that they become their habits.
When starting a new habit, the body will definitely have a refusal response. The most important thing at the moment is to continue practicing. Don’t let your thoughts interfere with this process, because before you have done so, thinking will definitely have certain limitations. If at such times, you try to interfere with the new program, so the program is prone to installation failure. The most important thing looking at the installation process is not time and patience?
4. Complete “internalization”
Complete the operating system upgrade.
In the above process, the most difficult thing is that during the decades of operation, our brains have not installed so many different programs, the patterns of deep thought are always hindering our process. “install” but something new.
It is important not to limit yourself, using a tolerant and open mind to receive new things, and receive success at the same time.