The more mature and experienced we are, the more deeply we understand the moral principles for the final winner.
If you want to know whether your life is successful or not, don’t ask “Is my career good?”, “Is my status okay?”, “Is my marriage good?”, “” Can my children be raised well? “… but ask yourself:” Is my mind good? “.
The attitude of men influences their careers, the attitude of women affects marriage. Therefore, the more mature and experienced you are, the more you must understand that the mind can decide everything. You keep a good mind and everything around you will be good. In order to maintain a good mind, we must know “Say less, think more” and understand the 7 valuable lessons of life as followings:
First, learn to admit mistakes
Acknowledging mistakes seems to be a challenge for anyone, especially those who pursue victory, but making a mistake does not mean failure; failure is the result of a conscious but unsuccessful effort; while mistakes may be unintentional. Sometimes, it is not necessarily our own mistake but knowing how to take responsibility for us is also the way to make mistakes become an advantage for ourselves. That’s when our hearts become peaceful, calm, receptive and tolerant of ourselves, with those around us.
Secondly, study quietly
All hard teeth have even fallen out one day, while flexible tongues that seem to be more vulnerable can live until the end of your lives. Therefore, to live long and live well, learn how to behave gently and calmly. When we become calmer, the tendency to work will be more cautious, less impulsive and we always know how to consider things in many ways before acting. Demonstrating calmness, gentleness from personality to facial expression, external gestures are also a method to train patience and show respect for those around them.
Third, learn to be patient
back a step back is the wide sky; be patient to avoid trouble. With patience, everything can be solved by wisdom and a calm mind. Turning big stories into small things, small things into nothing is the best method to survive, to forgive, tolerate and behave.
Fourth, learn how to communicate effectively
First understand, second believe. If you want to be understood by others, you must first know how to listen and understand the thoughts of thiers. If we talk to each other without clarity, understanding, there will sooner or later be misunderstandings, causing unnecessary problems. Therefore, in communication, the most important is the ability to understand and care for each other. We apply our own experience, putting in the opponent’s case to consider from many perspectives. Like that, we can understand and communicate effectively with each other.
In many respects we can see that successful people are similar to ordinary people. They all have the same educational or experience level. But if we try to look more closely, we can clearly see that those who succeed in their lives will always have people who understand for all their thoughts and actions. Thanks to such people, they themselves really succeed on their way of life.
Fifth, learn to forgive
Forgiving when really necessary is also one of the natural laws in this life. By that we can feel freedom, no longer entangled, or stones in our hearts, the mind has attained a state of tranquility. After forgiving, our hearts will be open, anyone can say anything that we can ignore without accepting, anyone who insults can be easily forgiven, if there is anger, sadness is also only a few minutes, a few hours self-balancing, when you wake up one night, you can forget all the afflictions and have peace of mind. However, forgiving does not mean denying, avoiding the responsibility of a person, but making us more passionate, more lenient and open, learning many new things.
Sixth, learn to react
Look at your friends’ achievements, put your envy away and cheerfully congratulate them. Look at good people around you, leave your doubts and feel the emotions from the inner mind. Live honestly to know the right and wrong discernment, always respect what was said, did it without covering up the falsehoods by the beautiful and empty words. Real feelings will help us know how to be confident, humble, consistent and do not compare and calculate more.
Seventh, learn how to survive
To survive, at any ages, be sure to take care of yourself and maintain good health for yourself. The richest self-possessed property that accompanies us from birth to the end of life is the body. The body is healthy and we have the motivation to build a career, marriage, relationships and success in life. Once we have lost that precious property, we cannot exchange the mountain of gold and silver for even a small moment.